For while now I have been working on social and
community empowerment in different communities and I have met so many
organization and people who are doing great work in our societies and other
groups, but my biggest question is what do we look in terms of making changes
in our societies?
I have not understood up to now what is better for
organization is it the number or out come? Anyway it depends with the way we
look things, but if I have been a judge or person to make judgments I would
look things in different way of making the change!!
Once in life I decided to move my life in a
different way than what I used to think
and I promised myself I will not look back or
fear to go for what I want I did not mind my education or who are with
me but I shared my ideas with many who seemed to like it so much and I said to
myself I will not let what I love or created just be used for just fun or
personal interest and from that point I knew what I want and little by little I
do not mind for how long it will take, but am sure one day my greatest desire
dream will be fulfilled by me or by somebody else.
This year my work my life seem like it going
opposite of what I want I have so much ideas things which I can’t just explain
them here but for sure I know because of one issue or another I have a lot to
do to fulfill my dream every day I search for opportunity, opportunity to do
things the right way, opportunity to explain or to meet somebody who will understand
me and help me with ideas or financially, but every day end up in vain but I never
lose hope I will keep going on and on until I find what I want because this
world need more courage more strengthen, more creativity more trying and trying
I will not stop until my last breath.
Last two months I talked so much of child support
and I still think a lot of how I can be able to help children who their parent
or guardian can’t be able to help them in high school education or other
education.’’ Education’’ even if it will not guarantee you 100% your future
success it not just like the one who do not have any skill in that level and
when I talk of this I say it with confidence from my personal experience, we
have to look solution of empowering our children and giving them opportunity
when still young if we want to make the future change and reduce dependency,
early pregnancy or married, Drugs abuse, crime in our societies and many other
challenges we over go because of luck of enough knowledge from our childhood,
we must think of how every child can access to free and fair better education.
Why I said education is the key of this challenges
one if our young people who do not have the opportunity for better training or
counseling education, what happen is this guys look for anything out of
frustration to fulfill life needs for them, some find sex as the escape place
to hide their worries and to find happiness (as also we very well know luck of
what we want, love as we call it), it our greatest way to make ourselves happy
which end up with pregnancy or other related diseases or challenges in life,
such family conflicts, crimes and long term poverty life.
Others such
as Drugs abuse does together morally with finding other ways of happiness which
drive our young people from level a of just alcohol, to hard drugs which turns
to be addiction then because of need of it such people may driven to crime to
earn money be able to acquire that they
need.
I have talked so much of early married before and
where it take us to when we start dating or enjoying hide and seek sex which at
that moment because of pressure and that joy it give us, we normally think this
is the right person and if you have nothing else in front of you which is
demanding the next thing you think is getting married and for sure nothing
sweet like having a girl or a boy who you think (I say you think because this
is un-matured relationship) is your life time lover.
Most of such relationship are very sweet at the
beginning but it changes everything when the baby or the pregnancy come in,
that when things start getting worse and relationship start getting sour, then
afterword you need to think of the father who have not good education and the
same to the wife who by then will be too busy to think anything outside the box
than the new born baby!
What such family could earn or could do than to look
for casual jobs which they are paid just to have enough for their family meals.
Am very sure and am sure you will agree with me up
to there, if we need to change things or end up poverty we must focus in one
thing at time and by doing so little by little we shall come to conquer our
biggest challenges in our societies today. Somebody may think why do I worry
and my family can afford to pay for me and I will be able to pay for my
children education and everything their need! Is that Selfish or what I call
un-human is thinking? Am sure you have
heard of this one man challenges is everybody worry! Ask me how and why? If you
do not see the problem, once is said, every little challenges from conflict
from the families, conflict from Tribes, conflict from Nation it all start with
very small things we ignore from the second we think we have no problem on our
selves because we can have everything we need as family or as person/s
Lastly to end my analyses today let me say we need to think big and
think as human and do not think Ben challenges does not bother you it will and
it will become one day part of your life challenges if we do not address it the
right time, what do I mean life give us different opportunity and we are all
blessed or gifted with different talent, skills, or way of thinking which give
us capability to achieve our goals as we wish, somebody somewhere maybe going
to life challenges because one day something went wrong not because he/she
wanted to things to be so, but it happens and it can happen to anybody and it
is our love, passion, and willingness to make one thing at time change that can
make somebody else one day do something for someone else!
For the past few days I have been volunteering in
one of our partners organization and I have seen something never seen before,
one guy Asian original current Kenyan he has come up with program of helping
the people, by providing them with money to start a small business from his own
income without asking for refund or interest like many people do, just want he
does is to sit down with them and ask them what they want to do and if their
give good explanation he give them some money which is a big boost to them all
those who have received now this small help have started small income business
or invested to work which will add value in their life..
That left me wondering how many people in the world
even if there are billionaires can be like this one man, people have ideas things
they would love to do but because they do not have people to guide them or
motivate them or support them their end up doing what their do not like for
just getting their daily meals or something to keep them alive.
To finish up my today issue this not only me words
but after discussing and talking with other we may be seem like we have nothing
we can do because we do not have power to express our selves but if given
opportunity we can move the mountain.
Let think for long term solution and stop assuming
or ignoring things which are fact but let us take every single person as human
understand them and help them, uplift their life to bring change in our
societies, nations, and our beautiful world.
Ben cares! Do you!
Thanks for
your time if you like my thinking just share but living a comment or by sharing
with a friend!
Uncle Ben
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